Sexuality starts with the instinct of generation. It is an action that happens usually in a particular interval of a year between the livings. Human, only who has the capable of thinking in the world of mammiferouses, has used her/his mind also in this action, and has created the chance of having this enjoyment in a continuous way by spreading this action, that only aims generation, into whole time. Women and men, who changed the sexuality into an action that they can make whenever they wish by using their minds, have started to approach this matter in different ways. This action, that both men and women wish and enjoy mutually, has been thought as a condition that is enjoyed only by men and been obliged to endure by women. How has it attained this point?

Probably, human used to make this action for generation in particular times like the other livings, in old days. Later, women realized that men had been more impatient in this matter, although they had the same enjoyment as men from the sexuality. Soon, they started to make use of this. The positions have changed; men started to chase while women escape; men started to be hunter while women are hunt and women started to be donor while men are receiver. The enjoyment had by women in this action started to be ignored by both women and men. The men started to be grateful to the women, who present them their ‘sexuality’, which is very valuable. They started to reward the women because of this gesture of them.

Idiot and impatient attitudes of the men in this matter caused the women act as the important person, then sell their sexuality. So that, the oldest profession of the world has arised.

Nowadays, the men have to purchase the sexuality of a woman if they can not have the chance of having sex although they want to. Men with no money have to resort unsentimental, communicationless and individual satisfactions.

The women have institutionalized this commerce in the course of time. Brothels, namely sex stores have been opened. As a difference from the other commerce’s, this was a kind of hiring; namely you could not own and take the woman with you, whom you had paid for. Why has sexuality changed into a unilateral position? How has it been the vital spot of the men, who are strong, clever, talented and sensitive?

Nowadays, the sexuality is in such a situation that people can venture death, commit murder; families can be dissolved, large amounts of money can be wasted for it. It is in such a disgusting, shameful position that it can turn towards animals and children. Why an event that is wanted and enjoyed by both of the genders is sold one of them by the other? It is not possible to understand. Women in brothels wait the men ‘go to make them happy and pay for it’.

Let us think the opposite: Men wait at a home and they get a great amount of money by having sex with as much women as they are able to endure. How is it? Most of the men will say “Wonderful!” Why can not such like this be thought for men; I think there is no example of this in the history. Some of you may mention gigolos. There is such a big difference between the prevalence of these two items that they can not be compared each other.

Let us have a look at the situations of the men who pursue sexuality: Man, who ignores the illnesses that are infected by sexuality, venture even death. Lots of women, who suffer from this kind of illnesses, infect their illnesses to the men sometimes intentionally, sometimes in order to earn money. Why is the woman body such valuable as this? It is accepted. Essentially, when we have a look at the nature, we will realize that the magnificent and the beautiful ones are the males (cock and hen, ram and sheep, male and female peacocks, male and female lions etc.). Essentially, this is also the same for humans too. The magnificent one is the man. But, as a result of the understanding of esthetics, that was insisted by women and has taken shape during thousands of years; woman body has been exalted although it did not deserve. Breasts, which disgust when seen on a cow or a dog, are one of the most erotic points of the woman body. While an animal with plucked feathers seems comical, unfeatheredness of the woman is thought as ‘silken skin’.

Men spend their time, strength and money in order to be together with a more beautiful woman. But, a more beautiful woman does not mean a greater enjoyment. Enjoyment is the trade of communication and feeling. Because of sexuality, men pursue women, beg and waste money for them. Poor men pay money in return for the enjoyment that they presented women.

Sexuality is lived differentially because of the effects of income, education, religion and tradition. The only thing which never changes is the situation of the man. Both a less educated man without enough money and a well educated man with a great amount of money pursue woman and pay for sexuality. But the prices are different. Why a man must pursue woman, beg, waste his strength and money? “May I present you enjoyment? Of course if you pay for it.” Just nonsense.

It is a despising situation that a woman sells her sexuality. It is discreditable. The woman makes fraud by behaving as having no enjoyment. The women do not make enough effort to get rid of prostitution. On the contrary, the prostitution is increasing continually. Women from the neighbor countries, carry large amounts of money to their countries in addition to the enjoyment they have had.

May not a woman like a man? May not she want to have a sex with him? She may, of course! Why does not she say that if so? At this point, what is tragic is the situation of the men. Who burns with the fantasy of women, who can not reach them despite striving, and who has psychological problems because of these are the men.

All of you may have known the hostesses. You go to a night club and order a drink. Then, you call a woman and also order a drink for her. You have a chat with her and at the most, you hug and kiss her a few times (often just a chat). You must order her a drink and pay money if you want to have a chat with her (How sad!). The woman ditches her chat and her friendship since a few hours. Why a man must pay for this that is also the woman’s need at the same time?

Think that a man cooks and invites a woman. They eat together. At the end, the man gives her money for eating together. Here it is, the sexuality is being lived in such a way.

Even though the sexuality differs from a country to another, the situation is not so different in the developed countries. Although there is no conception of ‘hostess’ in Europe, the prostitution is common almost in all of the countries.

As a result, sexuality is a weapon that woman holds. The woman finds new tactics every day so as to develop this weapon. Sectors of cosmetics, fashion, make-up and esthetics always work in order to make the sexuality of women more effective.

All of us know the truth. Sexuality is the enjoyment that both of the genders have equally. People who wish this (woman/man) should notify their desire to the opposite gender fearlessly. This desire should not be found strange, the right of accepting or refusing should be exercised. Sexuality should not be an opportunity or a weapon; it should not be bought and sold.