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Dreams, journeys we take to the secrets of the depths of our souls to increase our awareness and to contribute to out self improvement...During these journeys we sometimes have very special dreams. The moments when we make love freely or make very different choices.  Just like in all other dreams, these dreams give us very important messages about ourselves too. What needs to be done is as usual to thank, to try to understand and to carry its energy and wisdom to life. Most of us don't want to talk about these dreams; we are afraid of being misunderstood. Actually this fear lies in wrong comments of long time and the interpretation that dreams are just the expression of suppressed sexual desires, emotions and thoughts. However now just like in everything else, in the age of change and growth the taboos about dreams have also been started to clash. Dreams that are one of the most important steps in self development have started to find their places and value in life.

Ancient Greeks and Egyptians used to use sexuality in their temples to awaken the abundance of Gods. This used to be seen as the highest form of humanly form. God and the human would unite and in the end both would be nurtured. We, just like Senois, can awaken the abundance powers of the Gods by creating sexual dreams in which we would "reach pleasure” which is orgasm- that is to say we can activate our highest potential. Weather in dream or not, we can dedicate every sexual experience not only to increasing the sexual pleasure but also to the expression of these forces that will encourage the creativity.  According to Ebu Sait El Vaiz: The dream of sexual intercourse indicates to owning the desired thing and reaching happiness. According to Kirmani: If a person gets in sexual intercourse his family and children will benefit from that. According to Ibn-i Kesir: The dream of sexual intercourse indicates to good and happiness. According to Cassandra Eason: If you are not in a sexual relationship or in real life your sexual life is not very satisfactory, you can have dreams showing this dream will come true.  According to Soozi Holbeche: Clear dreams stimulate sensitivity and sexuality sometimes to the point of orgasm. Weather clear or ordinary, sexual dreams enliven creativity and symbolize the union of various parts of ourselves.

 

All right and how does this procedure take place in guide dreams;

I suggest that when you remember such a dream you listen to the silence of your body and soul by reflecting in. Very soon the answer will come to you- For the past time checks how you express yourself, your feelings and the satisfaction of your sexual life. If we are able to make it pass this filter, we can distinguish which need of ours the dream indicates and from which source it speaks to us, this way we can interpret it in the right way and add its energy to life. This is the best way to transform the chaos in us to opportunity. Because all chaos in fact create a  quantum jump in our lives.

 

If you haven't had a sexual intercourse for a long time or you are not satisfied in your ongoing relationship, the desire of sexual gratification reflects on the dreams. In these types of dreams you dream mostly masturbating rather than making love to someone. These results from your not expressing yourself to the person you are with. The best thing to do is to share this with your partner. You can tell him/her about your dream and decorate it a bit. Or what you desire; perhaps being caressed more or maybe making love for a longer time or erotic dances...

 

If you dream of yourself making love to someone else when you wake up see the qualities of the person you are impressed by. Then simply develop those qualities in yourself.

 

If you are having an intercourse with your fellows, This uniting with he man/woman energy inside us shows that you will be in more peace with yourself and that you accept yourself as you are.

 

If you are making love to your husband or wife and if this is a much repeated dream, indicates the harmony between you and probably growing together. If you don’t feel at ease when you wake up it indicates that you are not able to express yourself to your mate in real life.

 

If the feeling of guilt is dominating when you wake up from sexual dreams in this life you haven't done the things you wanted to do, that you carry a lot of weight or if you have different sexual preferences you may be experiencing this feeling. The best thing to do is to love yourself and accept yourself as you are.

 

Being raped in dreams indicates that you leave the charge of your life to others and that you don't fulfill your responsibilities.

 

Being in relation with animals is a sign of extreme greed, worry or fear.

 

If you very often dream of yourself satisfying yourself, with the first chance do something that will add joy, happiness and pleasure to your life. This shows that you are overworking and not giving time to work. A few months ago I had a dream like that. When I reflected on the dream, we realized that we hadn't had a vacation for a long time in fact for two years. Now my wife and I work more systematically and when we prepare our monthly and yearly schedules we first mark the resting days. It can also indicate that you have a strong ego. Follow your shadows.

 

After sexual dreams our creativity increases. Improvements in our work and daily lives take place. Sometimes the negative energy of the day, unexpressed feelings and thoughts are satisfied during dreams.

 

Making love like kids means a union with the child, your other half inside you. Children usually mean unexpressed creativity in guide dreams. Look what you want very much in life and delay it. When you start doing it you will se that these dreams end.

 

Sex in dreams in general indicates growth, expression and creativity. However if upon waking you don't feel well, feel unease and live this often the help of a therapist will be beneficial. Just like in every dream, if you consider dream interpretation points in our previous issues, you can turn these dreams to opportunity.