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Dreams,
journeys we take to the secrets of the depths of our souls to increase our
awareness and to contribute to out self improvement...During these journeys
we sometimes have very special dreams. The moments when we make love freely
or make very different choices. Just like in all other dreams, these dreams
give us very important messages about ourselves too. What needs to be done
is as usual to thank, to try to understand and to carry its energy and
wisdom to life. Most of us don't want to talk about these dreams; we are
afraid of being misunderstood. Actually this fear lies in wrong comments of
long time and the interpretation that dreams are just the expression of
suppressed sexual desires, emotions and thoughts. However now just like in
everything else, in the age of change and growth the taboos about dreams
have also been started to clash. Dreams that are one of the most important
steps in self development have started to find their places and value in
life.
Ancient Greeks and Egyptians used to use sexuality in their temples to
awaken the abundance of Gods. This used to be seen as the highest form of
humanly form. God and the human would unite and in the end both would be
nurtured. We, just like Senois, can awaken the abundance powers of the Gods
by creating sexual dreams in which we would "reach pleasure which is
orgasm- that is to say we can activate our highest potential. Weather in
dream or not, we can dedicate every sexual experience not only to increasing
the sexual pleasure but also to the expression of these forces that will
encourage the creativity. According to Ebu Sait El Vaiz: The dream of
sexual intercourse indicates to owning the desired thing and reaching
happiness. According to Kirmani: If a person gets in sexual intercourse his
family and children will benefit from that. According to Ibn-i Kesir: The
dream of sexual intercourse indicates to good and happiness. According to
Cassandra Eason: If you are not in a sexual relationship or in real life
your sexual life is not very satisfactory, you can have dreams showing this
dream will come true. According to Soozi Holbeche: Clear dreams stimulate
sensitivity and sexuality sometimes to the point of orgasm. Weather clear or
ordinary, sexual dreams enliven creativity and symbolize the union of
various parts of ourselves.
All right and how does this procedure take place in guide dreams;
I
suggest that when you remember such a dream you listen to the silence of
your body and soul by reflecting in. Very soon the answer will come to you-
For the past time checks how you express yourself, your feelings and the
satisfaction of your sexual life. If we are able to make it pass this
filter, we can distinguish which need of ours the dream indicates and from
which source it speaks to us, this way we can interpret it in the right way
and add its energy to life. This is the best way to transform the chaos in
us to opportunity. Because all chaos in fact create a quantum jump in our
lives.
If you haven't had a sexual intercourse for a long time or
you are not satisfied in your ongoing relationship, the desire of sexual
gratification reflects on the dreams. In these types of dreams you dream
mostly masturbating rather than making love to someone. These results from
your not expressing yourself to the person you are with. The best thing to
do is to share this with your partner. You can tell him/her about your dream
and decorate it a bit. Or what you desire; perhaps being caressed more or
maybe making love for a longer time or erotic dances...
If you dream of yourself making love to someone else
when you wake up see the qualities of the person you are impressed by. Then
simply develop those qualities in yourself.
If you are having an intercourse with your fellows,
This uniting with he man/woman energy inside us shows that you will be in
more peace with yourself and that you accept yourself as you are.
If you are making love to your husband or wife
and if this is a much repeated dream, indicates the harmony between you and
probably growing together. If you dont feel at ease when you wake up it
indicates that you are not able to express yourself to your mate in real
life.
If the feeling of guilt is dominating when you wake up from sexual dreams
in this life you haven't done the things you wanted to do, that you carry a
lot of weight or if you have different sexual preferences you may be
experiencing this feeling. The best thing to do is to love yourself and
accept yourself as you are.
Being raped in dreams
indicates that you leave the charge of your life to others and that you
don't fulfill your responsibilities.
Being in relation with animals
is a sign of extreme greed, worry or fear.
If
you very often dream of yourself satisfying yourself,
with the first chance do something that will add joy, happiness and pleasure
to your life. This shows that you are overworking and not giving time to
work. A few months ago I had a dream like that. When I reflected on the
dream, we realized that we hadn't had a vacation for a long time in fact for
two years. Now my wife and I work more systematically and when we prepare
our monthly and yearly schedules we first mark the resting days. It can also
indicate that you have a strong ego. Follow your shadows.
After sexual dreams our creativity increases. Improvements in our work and
daily lives take place. Sometimes the negative energy of the day,
unexpressed feelings and thoughts are satisfied during dreams.
Making love like kids means a union with the child, your other half inside
you. Children usually mean unexpressed creativity in guide dreams. Look what
you want very much in life and delay it. When you start doing it you will se
that these dreams end.
Sex in dreams in general
indicates growth, expression and creativity. However if upon waking you
don't feel well, feel unease and live this often the help of a therapist
will be beneficial. Just like in every dream, if you consider dream
interpretation points in our previous issues, you can turn these dreams to
opportunity.
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